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Monday, 21 April 2008

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    Forest
    By George Winston
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    Moving the Blog

    I am sad and excited to say that I am moving my blog from Xanga to the Blogspot.  I never thought I would get into blogging but I love it and I love that people actually read this thing.  What makes me sad is that people want to comment but can't without creating a Xanga profile.  Then they have this ghost profile floating around cyberspace that they never use but have to remember a username and password for.  The Blogspot will let you leave a comment without creating a new account.

    So goodbye Xanga - we had some good times.  So dear friends please bookmark my new page and comment away!

    http://domesticgoddessphd.blogspot.com

Wednesday, 16 April 2008

  • Playdate and Almost Crawling

    Cedric is getting so close to crawling!  He can scoot very well on his belly and he has found that there are a wealth of things he can get to and put in his mouth.  See photo below.
                                                      


    He can get up on his knees and he lunges for things in front of him, but so far is hasn't put all the action together.  But I suspect I'll be posting a crawling video here before to long.

    Today (16 April 2008) was a beautiful, windy day in the city.  Cedric and I met a few other moms at the Botanical Gardens for a play date.  On Wednesday admission is free for city/county residents and the kids had a great time exploring the new exhibit and the recently completed children's playground.  I have to admit that the longer I live in St Louis, the more it grows on me and I look forward to taking Cedric to these places again and again.

Sunday, 13 April 2008

  • Swimming

    Cedric and I are taking swim classes together at the Clayton Center.  We are just over the half-way mark in our 8 week session and so far it has been a great experience.  The cost was very reasonable, a little more than $5 a session and there are a plethora of benefits;

    • potential to increase intelligence, concentration, and alertness
    • improved social, emotional, and physical development
    • children with disabilities, in particular autism have shown remarkable benefits from a nurturing swimming experience.
    • Parent/Infant-Toddler swim time can be an engaging, calming and positive tactile environment for developing, interacting and growing together.
    • longer naps after swim class (we have definitely seen this in our house!)
    • interact with other children their age.
    Here are a few pictures that Cedric's Grandma took of us during their last visit.




Wednesday, 02 April 2008

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    Jacques Loussier Plays Bach
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    Swish and Flick

    My friends Rebecca, Elisa and Kassy are three moms whose opinions I trust and whose experiences I glean as much as I can from - especially about babies.  And based off of their experiences I have decided to give cloth diapers a whirl.  My own experiences have been mixed - but I think I'm going to stick with it.  Now before you think that I do everything just because my friends are all doing it, I did my homework on cloth diapers and found out that it saves my household a bundle of money over time and the thought of those non-biodegradable diapers sitting in a landfill somewhere does make me feel guilty.  I freely admit that doing things to lesson my carbon footprint makes me feel good.

    I decided to try a sample pack from Cotton Babies - a local baby store and cloth diaper boutique, seriously half the store is dedicated to diapers.  The diapers were beautiful!  The feel of them compared to a disposable was amazing in the difference.  I felt newly guilty for putting such cheap, scratchy material on my precious baby's body.  What I was not prepared for was having to wash and dry them 5-6 times before I could even use them.  Then there is the great detergent debate.  Mercy!  There are entire forums dedicated to educating you about the dangers and evils that some detergents can have on your diapers, and after paying between $10 and $17 a diaper I can understand why.  But after some reading, I use either Tide Free or Planet.  Though in my opinion having soft water makes a huge difference.  All in all, not so bad at this point.  Minimal leaks, poop was not really an issue (very easy to flick in the toilet), and they seemed much more comfortable than disposable.  Plus I had a clear eco-conscience.  I decided to get another couple days worth.  I purchased a combination of BumGenius all in ones, BumGenius one-size, and Happy Heiny pocket diapers.

    Then Cedric's front teeth starting growing again.  This meant that he had poop that resembled melted peanut butter but sadly did not smell like it.  It also meant that just flicking it into the toilet was not going to happen.  It meant I had to "swish and flick."  Swishing and flicking happens to combine all of my worst sanitary fears into one activity.  Toilets, poop, and  hands are not a good combination in any scenario.  I thought this would be the end of my cloth diapering experience.  But I mustered my strength by thinking of my friends and trying to push down the inventory of infectious diseases contracted by contact with feces.  As far as I knew, they had not gotten sick from swishing and flicking.  The first time though was rough - toilet water touched my hands and I felt like they would never be clean again.  I wished I could scour a few layers of skin off of them.  Thankfully its gotten better.  There happens to be an art to the swish and flick and I really have not had to do it that often.

    On the whole, I think cloth diapering is the way to go and I'm going to stick with it.  I'm still experimenting with inserts and such to find the right combination to fit my needs, but I feel good about the situation.  I'm still having to use disposables at night but I'm hoping to find a diaper that can handle a baby that nurses multiple times in the night and thus wets frequently.  I think I have a good chance with these.

    I'll close this quite candid post with a picture of Cedric sporting a cloth diaper while playing with an XBox controller, he wants to be just like his Daddy already.



Tuesday, 25 March 2008

  • My Favorite Holiday

    I love Easter - even more than Christmas - it is my favorite holiday.  I'm also cool with making it a much bigger deal than it is.  Since this is Cedric's first Easter people have been asking us if the Easter Bunny visited our house.  The short answer is "No - a mythical bunny creature did not 'visit' and leave him a basket of treats, most of them egg themed."  I plan on taking the same line with the Easter Bunny as with Santa Claus - neither of them exist, its something other grownups made up to entertain kids.  In our house we'll celebrate Christmas as the time to honor the birth of Christ and Easter (Palm Sunday through Resurrection Sunday) is when we honor the death and resurrection of Christ.

    This year Easter was a bit somber - I imagine next year will be more festive - but since it came so early and it snowed off and on all day, we really didn't do much.  Our neighbors came over for lunch and I made lamb chops with a red pepper mint sauce.  That was nice as it fulfills one of my domestic fantasies, making lamb with mint on Easter.  We also listened to a song that Zach's Mom would play for them on Easter Sunday, "He's Alive" by Don Francisco.  The words are really, really good but I'm not going to lie its a bit dated, the 1970s have a distinct sound you know.  One of my favorite Easter songs is Andrew Peterson's "High Noon."  Come to think of it, why can't we have more Easter music?  There is a ton of Christmas music - I think its time we start coming out with Easter Carols!  Who is with me?